The relationship with your partner feels painful, damaged, lost.

Perhaps a single event has exploded what you thought was stable and strong. 

Perhaps it's something more gradual,  maybe a sudden realisation of what's been there for a while. 

However it happened, the collapse of your relationship is devastating. Emotions can overwhelm. Everyday life can feel unstable, unpredictable, frightening.

The future isn't a place you want to look at.

At such a time, family, friends, work can all feel like  blessings, or like unwanted, additional pressures. 

photo by David Libson-Hochenberg
photo by David Libson-Hochenberg

Thankfully, it doesn’t have to be that way. Wherever you are on your relationship- journey - even if you're on the way OUT of the relationship - you do NOT have to be stuck in negative feelings or circumstances.

I can help you deal with your emotions - so you're not overwhelmed by heartache, grief, anger, remorse etc.

I can help you deal with the practical issues - so you can  manage everyday life well.

I can help you start to feel restored, and build a more satisfying life for yourself and those around you.

I can help you deal effectively with your ex and/or others.

And - when the time is right and it's what you want - I can help you find love and partnership again.

You can start straight away by downloading this FREE essential guide '10 Steps after Separation'.

It will help you identify the essential strategies that will help you:

  • manage your emotions

  • deal effectively with the various challenges that separation throws up

  • start to build a life that truly satisfies

Take the 10 easy-to-grasp Steps as the starting point for your journey through separation into a more authentic, purposeful life.

photo by Rafael Libson-Hochenberg

Hi, I’m Derek Hassack. I have over 14 years professional experience helping people deal successfully with the challenges of relationship break-down and break-up.

As one client described it “through working with Derek I was able to get back my confidence, think reflectively and start to move on with my life”.

Personal crisis is not only be about fear, loss or other negatives; it's also a time of massive potential for transformation and growth - and that's what my clients experience.

Former client, Teresa Brown said:

“Derek’s intent listening and intuition meant that he understood what I was trying to say, even when I was not able to be coherent; he often helped me to look at difficult situations from a fresh and positive perspective.

I felt totally safe and able to talk completely honestly and freely. At the same time he kept me on-track, so I didn’t lose sight of what I wanted to achieve.

Derek’s inherent integrity inspires trust and confidence; he also never forgets you are an individual. His coaching gave me back my confidence so that I was able to trust in my instincts, to think reflectively and to start to move on with my life.”

real client recovery

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